Things to do before the Big Day
6 – 12 Months Beforehand
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Set a date for your wedding.
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Decide on what style of wedding you want.
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Find a good function coordinator.
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Set a time for the wedding and the reception.
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Set yourself a budget for the wedding.
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Interview caterers, bakers, photographers, florists, etc.
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By the end of month 10 ensure that you have booked a DJ, band or musician and a caterer, and photographer.
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Compile a guest list.
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Select a venue and location for the ceremony, reception, rehearsal dinner and the other planned events and book them.
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Choose a bridesmaid, best man and master of ceremonies.
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Begin shopping for your wedding dress and bridesmaids’ dresses.
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Begin looking at honeymoon options with your fiancée. If you plan to leave the country check your passports.
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Shop for and order invitations and thank you cards.
5 Months Beforehand
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Register a gift registry with a few well known shops.
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Book all wedding transportation that you plan on using. (limousines, horse drawn cart, etc.)
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Start making the wedding dress and the bridesmaids’ dresses.
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Start looking for matching shoes.
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Shop for the men’s (groom, best man, etc) formal wear and order it.
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Finalize honeymoon plans with fiancée and book with a travel agent.
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Finalize the music selection for the wedding and reception.
4 Months Beforehand
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Book a minister and confirm religious arrangements.
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Order your wedding cake.
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Make the rehearsal dinner plans.
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Buy the wedding rings.
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Book a florist.
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Discuss the menu you want with your caterer.
3 Months Beforehand
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Finalize the guest list and get all necessary addresses.
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Shop, shop, shop! Lingerie, honeymoon clothing, attendants gifts, a gift for your fiancée, pre and post-wedding party clothes you may need.
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Visit your hairstylist, beauty therapist and make up artist, and book them.
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Organise the confetti.
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Reserve a block of rooms for your out of town guests.
2 Months Beforehand
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Finalize arrangements for any rental item you may need (Candles, decorative screens, special lighting, etc.)
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Send out the wedding invitations.
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Visit your lawyer.
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Order other printed stationery e.g. place cards.
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Have your final fittings (you and the attendees).
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Reconfirm honeymoon arrangements.
1 Month Beforehand
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Chase up on late replies and finalise guest list.
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Discuss a number of possible bouquets with your florist.
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Finalise the arrangements for the reception venue and caterers.
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Arrange a seating plan for the reception.
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Make sure that all clothing for the wedding is near completion.
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Prepare a newspaper announcement.
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Have a bridal portrait taken.
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Make sure everything is in order with all the key professionals you have working on your upcoming events.
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Pick up your wedding rings.
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Formally invite wedding party and guests to the rehearsal dinner.
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Prepare all the necessary forms for name changes on ID book, credit cards, bank accounts, passports, etc.
1 Week Beforehand
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Begin packing for your honeymoon.
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Make final checks and run through the programme with the master of ceremonies.
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Confirm final catering numbers and let your caterer know.
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Have a rehearsal for the wedding ceremony.
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Write speeches.
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Wear in your wedding shoes at home.
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Delegate family and friends to return items that have been hired.
1 Day Beforehand
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Pamper yourself.
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Get everything you are going to need tomorrow ready today.
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Hand out presents to your bridesmaids and attendees.
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Contact your minister to make sure he will be there.
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Go to bed early.
The Big Day
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Sleep late.
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Take a long relaxing bath.
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Eat a healthy, light breakfast.
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Carefully put on your dress on without disturbing your hair.
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Relax and enjoy your magical day.
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Get your hair and make-up done